Sex After 40

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In Real Life -

10 things to remember before You cheat

1. Someone will always find out.

2. Treat your temptation as a cage match. Defeating that treacherous organ between your legs is the ultimate triumph of man over nature. It’s you versus your penis. He’s up for the challenge. Are you

3. If you get caught, the law is on your wife’s side. And you won’t lose just half of your stuff. The other half—the golf clubs, the surround sound, the Armani—will be destroyed in a spectacular driveway bonfire as every angry woman you know toasts marshmallows shaped like your testicles.

4. And if you’re not married? Your longtime girl is bound by no law.

5. If a woman who knows you’re spoken for comes on to you, it’s flattering. It’s tempting. But remember that she’s doing it to feed her own ego, not yours. She wants to see how much power she holds over you. And if you take her bait, she then knows she must be superior in every way to your sweetie. Deep down, she has nothing but contempt for both your male weakness and your mate’s existence. That should really piss you off.

6. Friends you made while you were a couple will disappear. Friends you had as a single guy are long gone. That leaves you with the hard drinkers.

7. You’re about to be with the kind of woman who wants to be with the kind of man who would cheat on a woman.

8. Channel all temptation toward the girl you left at home. Example: When out for a night with the boys, go to Hooters, not a strip club or roadhouse. Hooters girls are the unsung heroines of relationship therapy—gorgeous, chatty, and so untouchable that you always go home hungry. Your gal has no idea her sex life will improve tenfold when you get there.

9. At the office party, pretend the coworker who’s flirting with you has gonorrhea.

10. If your ex calls, enjoy a pleasant 5-minute conversation. Then tell her your wife’s on the other line.

Online –

Is Cyber Sex cheating or just assisted masturbation ? Is there a difference between finding another needy ,lonely soul looking for love and paying some hot ass babe to get naked and play with herself on a cam ? I say depending on YOUR mind set,  it’s the difference between having an affair and visiting a whore. If You keep it in context and remember it’s mutual fantasy and it keeps you from cheating in real and Your needs filled than what the hell?

Online fantasy if done right can be quite fulfilling. First off let agree that there are two ways to go here. Free or paid. Free is good if You get lucky enough to find a site that delivers. Keep in mind that so many “Chat rooms” like days of old are like AOL chat rooms where the first thing most of the 14 year olds that go to proclaim such erotic comments as  ” I’m so horny” and ASL ? ( age, sex, location) OK, Your in a free Sex chat room and 90% of the “females” are males, some crusty 35 year old gimp still living with mom and dad, sitting in their basement in the fruit of the looms enticing You into nasty Sex chat.

Pay sites are, well You get what You pay for and free is usually just that.  Out of the pay sites You have the Adult personals and the Adult model cams and video chat. Try both. play around and see what You like. The pay babes are like the whores, to them it is a living but You find a good one and it saves a lot of time and bullshit. they are there to fill Your needs ( the good ones, there are so many who are about as much fun as jerking off with your left hand)

OK, now You found a sexy little cutie with her own cam site. She catches You attention, You find the urge to pay the fee and take her to her private chat with cam room. This is where so many loose it, they come in like a limp dick who has not had pussy since it had him. Play it cool, you wouldn’t act like a jack ass at a bar if your looking ton get laid. Well, OK many do and` that is why they are in a AOL chat room asking ASL.  Once You find a sweetie that catches your attention chat, tell Her Your needs and see if she is willing to  supply them. Once You both come to an agreement much like a escort in the real world, you become a regular and once she realized that You are on the way to some great jerking  off and some nasty angle You have never seen a coochie from.