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Men Share the Sexiest Moves Women Make: Find Out What You Do that He Loves
Take control.
It’s a long-known strategy for guys to use reverse psychology to get a girl in the sack. The best way to guarantee a lay? Insist it’s not going to happen.
When women do it, it can be coy or coercing, playful or powerful. And sexperts insist that setting the boundaries of an intercourse-less night can be much hotter than you’d think. Remember foreplay? That thing you used to do before sex? How about an entire night of it? No running for the finish line, just enjoying the journey.
Have fun.
Flirty is fun. And a woman who’s having fun is almost always sexy. While men may be over childhood playground games, bedroom games (and grown-up toys) are a whole other story.
Forget Monopoly (yawn!) and Scrabble (unless you make it Strip Scrabble). Buy a board game from a sex shop and see if you can … finish. With a little creativity, you can turn everyday games into something much steamier.
One of the gals in Patty Brisben’s, founder and CEO of Pure Romance, Inc., office turned the waiting game into an actual game by making a scavenger hunt for her honey, leaving come-hither clues, along with “accessories” for the night’s festivities (massage oil, a candle, etc.).
Build anticipation.
Men are visual creatures, so flashing a little skin may be all it takes to get him hot under the collar. And in our drive-thru, “I want it now” society, a little delayed gratification can lead to one hell of an “I can’t wait to rip your clothes off” session once you two are finally in the same room.
“It’s so easy to leave a very provocative message or take a picture of yourself sitting in some sexy lingerie or whatever you want to put on,” Brisben says. “Just text and say, ‘This is what’s waiting for you.’”
Slutty doesn’t equal sexy.
While you may be capable of porn-worthy performances, guys are quick to point out that sexy doesn’t always mean slutty. Innocence definitely has a certain appeal. So don’t assume that you’ve always got to be comparable to Carmen Electra or Pam Anderson.
After getting great oral sex, Robert Hill rhetorically asked his girl: Where did you learn how to do that? “She whispered in my ear: ‘HBO.’ I thought it was cute, funny and, best of all, added to her innocence. Honestly, no guy wants to know who ‘taught’ a girl,” he says.
Do the unexpected.
There’s a time and place for everything, some say. But when you decide to get down and dirty at conventionally inappropriate times and places, that’s when great sex becomes memorable sex.
Aerosmith’s Steven Tyler sang about love in an elevator. And men like Luke Shore remember getting caught, literally, with his pants down when he and his girlfriend were in the park “playing” after dark.
Be into it.
Most men want to know they’re doing a good job and that you’re getting into it too.
So don’t be afraid to let loose. You don’t have to scream and moan like a banshee, or fake the big O, but do make sure your partner can tell you’re enjoying yourself. Sometimes stroking his ego can be just as arousing as actually stroking him.
do the unexpected and do it well
